Put some Thoughts Into This...

Recently, I had a conversation with a gal friend of mine. And this particular conversation really set my thoughts running...it goes like this:

Gf: Ger, would you be with a person who loves you more than you love him, or would u rather be with the one whom you love yet doesnt really reprocicate the love you had for him?

Me: Erm...aiyo, your question very chim leh...why leh?Why you suddenly ask me this?you got bf liao mah, and he really treat you very well leh!

Gf: Ya i know...but you should know me...i dun really love him that much...im still having feelings for A....

Me: Huh??but...but you do know that A is a bastard rite? He left you for some other sluts!!!And he lied to you for soooo lonnng!!!

Gf: Ya i noe, but i just duno how to not love him! Hes the one guy that really took my heart away..

Me: OMG! ger, dun tell me that you are going to break up with your bf now...Do u actually realized how lucky you are to have him??Whatever you say, whatever you do, hes always so supportive!!And the best thing is he dotes on you like theres no tomolo!!Furthermore, hes even planning the future that he envisioned you being inside with him!!Are you mad?

Gf: I know, I know!!I'm not breaking up with him, just that the more he treats me nice, the more i felt bad and as a result, i'll pick on him!!Every little thing!!Even the way he eats...How??i felt like a witch!!!!So evil~

Me: Yeah man, you are really evil...haiz...ger, u noe wat? In this world, you can nvr have the exact things that you had always wish u'll have. In this case, u'll nvr be with the person whom think that you loved deeply. But, as an outsider, i felt that, its not that u love A as much as you had said. I just felt that you just felt it as a habit being with him. No matter wat, u guys had been together for 2 years plus...but, look, its a fact that he left u, he walked out on you for some cheap sluts, and he even cook up some cock and bull story of why hes putting the relationship to a halt.

And just when you thought Love is turning its back on you, he actually got you another guy. And this time round, Love had a new pair of glasses on, he found the best for u!!U may not love him as much as you had loved A, but feelings can be developed and love has to be nurtured rite?

Gf: Uh-huh...so...i'll just have to continue to make myself think that i love my bf?

Me:....y do i have such a dumb gf??HEY!!!NUT HEAD!!u love your bf k??just not enough!!It might be becos you are holding ur feelings back due to the failed r/s u had with A...Comon, when u just got together with A, its the same thing...u had juz got out of a nasty r/s with X rmbr? and u n A almost cun make it...and to compare, A wasnt so sweet to u as ur bf now...I noe lah, A is more style dats y u like him more rite??

Gf: i'm not too sure oso...but, i realli felt better when i went out with A rather than my bf...felt more proud...

Me: U r a witch man!Style can be develop, trust me...i'm a fashion student..But, once true love is gone, no matter how u pray for it to come back, it will nvr cum back...I realli wants u to be happy...i dun want u to keep indulge urself in dat horrible past r/s with A the bastard!!

Gf: Alrite...i think u do make a point...but i really needs time...

Me: I understand...dun turn ur back at true love k?Open up ur heart, forgets about the past r/s, just keep some for urself to rmbr as a sweet memory will do. Tell urself, u deserved that nice guy out there, and not to some nasty bastard that keep toying with ur feelings making u felt like shit!

Gf: okok...hey, ger, thx ya? REalli felt better after tokking to u...

Thats the whole conversation...well, i believed the question tht my gal friend posted to me will also be a normal question pop up by a lot of pple. The answer??Neither...to me, most importantly is that you felt comfortable, happy and contended with the person you are with noe. That's the most important thing, isn't it?