We Have To Grow Up

Everyone has to grow up at a certain point of time. No one can always remain as a kid. Why? Because when we grew older, our responsibilites grew as well, and we have to learn to deal with all these responsibilities.

I don't understand. Almost two years, but he is still the same. Still as childish, as stubborn...refusing to hear anything that I have to say. Still running away from problems, running away from responsibilities, waiting for others to pick up the bits and pieces of problems that he had created. A few hours ago, after putting down the phone with him, (it's another round of arguement) I realized I was very lucky that we broke up. If I was still in a relationship with him, I realyl don't think I'll be able to lead my life now. My life would probably be quarrels, money woes, quarrels, working round the clock and of course, more quarrels.

I did love him once, and it was deep. However, the pain that he incurred in me was the most heart wrenching experience. To think that I even went into depression because of him! Nay, luckily I'm all over those now. I was brain dead for 2 years plus, I wouldn't want to continue being dead anymore. Now, I'm able to see things clearly, understand things in deeper depths.

To those people out there who are still lavishing on their past, please, open your eyes and see things in a different perspective. You guys broke up because of a truth. And since the truth is there, please take a good look at it. Breaking up is not as bad as you think, at least it helps you to stay away from further heartaches, further quarrels and bring you to a happier place, helping you to move on with your life, allowing you to see things or realized things that you might never thought was ever there.

Think about it....